Kinkstar for Kink Month on DrSuzy.Tv

Kinkstars for Kink Month: Biz Bonobo with Ron de Jeremy Rum, Frankie S. Capwell, a.k.a. Simon Blaise with The Bonobo Way, Dr. Susan Block with the Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality and Ecosexuality: When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love, Audrey Holiday, Dayton Rains with Agwa Coca Leaf Liqueur. Photo: Miss Ono Bo

Kinkstars for Kink Month: Biz Bonobo with Ron de Jeremy Rum, Frankie S. Capwell, a.k.a. Simon Blaise with The Bonobo Way, Dr. Susan Block with Snake Eve, the Wiley-Blackwell International Encyclopedia of Human Sexuality and Ecosexuality: When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love, Audrey Holiday, Dayton Rains with Agwa Coca Leaf Liqueur. Photo: Miss Ono Bo

Length 1:32:54 Date: October 10, 2015


by Dr. Susan Block

Kink Month gets kinkier on DrSuzy.Tv as we investigate the inner and outer realms of Kinkstar kinkster, attorney-at–law, mesmerizing performer, mercurial impresario, bonoboësque quick-change artist, Rocky Mountain “Person of Leather” (2014) and mutable “hermaphrodite,” Mr. Simon Odysseus Blaise, the “King of Kink,” a.k.a. Frank Capwell, esquire, a.k.a., Miss Frankie S. Capwell.

“A rockstar performs on a stage,” points out Simon/Frankie. “A pornstar performs on a set. A kinkstar can do both and rock a party like no other.” Thus this Kinkstar rocks Bonoboville with a flick of the wrist and a gender-bending twist. Perfect for Kink Month!

Simon Blaise flogs Audrey Holiday on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Photo: L'erotique

Simon Blaise flogs Audrey Holiday on The Dr. Susan Block Show. Photo: L’erotique

In case you didn’t know (and we certainly didn’t, until last week), October is “Kink Month,” having been so declared by our friends at Stockroom. Seems like a natural, as the Halloween season is a traditionally witchy time to let your freak flag (and floggers) fly as you try on scary masks and play out wild roles. Let the kids have the candy; we’ll take the kink—all month long.

Whatever the season, Simon/Frankie lives the Kinkstar life pretty much 24/7, believing that “living as our authentic selves is the greatest gift we can give the world.” Definitely one-of-a-kind, though with (at least) two distinct male and female personas, s/he transforms himself to herself, from a dominant man to a feminine lady, right before our eyes, like a magician with nothing up his/her sleeve. In fact, the whole on-camera metamorphosis is pretty sleeveless and seamless, including a strip-down to complete nudity with a fairly close inspection of his/her remarkable “hermaphroditic” genitalia, complete with sizeable and functional (though not reproductive) penis as well as what s/he describes as a clitoris inside the testicles which have a surgical incision down the middle. According to Frankie, doctors performed intersex surgery circa the 1970s in an attempt to “fix” him/her as a baby by removing her labia and other feminine characteristics, thus (they fervently hoped) rendering him fully a “man.”

Well, the render didn’t render, at least not fully, despite those doctors’ fervent hopes. We have since learned that intersex surgery, usually performed on children and often impairing sexual function, tends to do more harm than good. Thankfully, this type of nonconsensual body mutilation is going out of fashion, and good riddance. Let hermaphrodites be hermaphrodites! Simon/Frankie is on the forefront of an androgynous revolution, refusing to *choose* one gender or take on the pigeon-holing sexual labels that society tries to force us to “fit” into.

And from the front... Photo: L'erotique

And from the front… Photo: L’erotique


We begin with Simon’s masculine side in Kinkstar T, leather vest, boots and pants, as he tenderly handles Snake Eve, we discuss the differences between kink, BDSM and fetish, his physical attraction to sapiosexual women and “controversial” positions in the kink community, and watch his rap video “Hot & Kinky” parody of Weird Al Yankovic’s “White & Nerdy” parody of Charmillionaire’s “Ridin” featuring Krayzie Bone. Afterwards, Simon treats us to a riveting demonstration of his very personal style of sensual domination. Volunteering to sub for him is the lovely Audrey Holiday, whom we first saw on DrSuzy.Tv being piggy-hooded by Goddess Soma with Fat Mike of NOFX, as well as choked (do not try this at home!) by Orpheus Black on our super-kinky BDSM Theater show. So Audrey’s already a “kink star” in Bonoboville. But she’s blown away in a whole new way by Simon. Hailing from the tough “faccia tosta” state of Rhode Island, Audrey is a young lady of few words, but the words she breathlessly chooses to describe her “sub space” experience under the artistic domination of Simon Blaise are just right:

“Dizzy and awesome.”

That’s how we feel just watching the Blaise kaleidoscope of autumnal leather locks blaze across her naked breasts, the firm grasp of the flogger around her crotch and his eagle-eyed gaze upon her reactions to his actions. Then there’s the rhythmic soundtrack of the thwack, thwack, THWACK across her bare back as she sighs and moans with passion. What a great kinkstar performance by both parties.

Simon Blaze reveal "hermaphroditic" features during his transformation into Frankie S. Capwell. Photo: Ono Bo

Simon Blaze reveal “hermaphroditic” features during his transformation into Frankie S. Capwell. Photo: Ono Bo

Then it’s time to party. After a Bonobo Way book-spanking of Audrey’s adorable (and talented) ass, Simon transforms into Frankie, as the rest of us get our Bonoboville Communion on with both spiced Ron de Jeremy rum (Yum!) and Agwa Coca Leaf Herbal Liqueur (Yum-Yum!). Everybody frees the nipple, including Frankie who reveals her lovely silicon-free 36Bs. Kinky 34DD pornstar Dayton Rains—now a webcam and phone therapist with the Institute—adorably attired in a pink tutu, black feather mask and not much else, is so enamored with Frankie’s cherry red-pedicured toes that she takes Communion off of them.

DrSuzy.Tv show producer Biz Bonobo, a.k.a. Elizabeth Aston, looking elegant in Daisy Fuentes retro-kinky lingerie, takes her Communion from Frankie’s left nipple. Mid-suck, she deftly grabs our guest’s happy crotch, finding and stimulating the hidden “clitoris” within the balls, practically giving her a blended male/female orgasm right there on the broadcast bed.

Biz Bonobo investigates Frankie's clitoris. Photo: L'erotique

Biz Bonobo investigates Frankie’s clitoris. Photo: L’erotique

Then Dayton and Audrey take turns investigating Frankie’s goodies, over and under her dress. Whatever the exact scientific classification, our investigation results in greater appreciation. Nothing like a little hands-on research, a.k.a. the Bonobo Handshake, to help you to appreciate a fellow human. Surreal yet very real, the scene seems like something out of the Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld Institute of Weimar Berlin.

Whatever the state of their genitalia, many different types of men are getting in touch with their feminine sides. Likewise, more and more women are feeling freer to express their masculine, more aggressive aspects. All of this is very much in tune with The Bonobo Way, especially the 6th step of the 12 Steps to Releasing Your Inner Bonobo: Explore the “Opposite” Sex Within You.

Frankie S. Capwell tells her story on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: Ono Bo

Frankie S. Capwell tells her story on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: Ono Bo

Which brings me to a shout-out to Carrie Weisman for her excellent Alternet article on a complex subject: the “Bro Job” – “Why ‘Straight’ Men Secretly Have Sex with Each Other.” Though Simon says he has never had sex as a man with a man, he agrees that this aspect of sexuality involving same-sex play is one of the few areas where women are afforded more leniency than men. It’s a touchy subject that we specialize in addressing here at the Block Institute and (full disclosure) maybe one reason I find Carrie’s article to be so excellent is that she quotes me liberally throughout it.

Another shout-out and mutual congrats to Dr. SerenaGaia Anderlini D’onofrio and Lindsay Hagamen, co-editors of Ecosexuality: When Nature Inspires the Arts of Love (for which I’m honored to have written the foreword) and all the contributing writers to this dazzling collection, for winning the Living Now Book Awards bronze medal in sexuality. Three cheers for Earth Love! More book-spankings with Ecosexuality! Read it, study it or get spanked by it.

Book-Spanking naughty Audrey with Ecosexualilty & The Bonobo Way. Photo: L'erotique

Book-Spanking naughty Audrey with Ecosexuality & The Bonobo Way. Photo: L’erotique

And Happy Kink Month! Be a kinkstar, at least in your own boudoir. As Capt’n Max intones towards the end, the killing fields are crowded with the ghosts of victims of human folly, war, bombing, beheading, police shootings, fanatical executions and civilian mass-murders. Then there’s environmental murder by corporate greed and carelessness. Can we stop or even curtail these multiple human killing machines? We can only try. And we have to start with ourselves, which might mean releasing our kinks through consensual play and not lethal violence. So shoot the good gun between your legs and throw those bad guns into the junkheap. It’s the Bonobo Way. And the Kinky Way.

Kinkstars for Kink Month on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: JuxLii

Kinkstars for Kink Month on DrSuzy.Tv. Photo: JuxLii

© October 11, 2015. Susan Block, Ph.D., a.k.a. “Dr. Suzy,” is a world renowned LA sex therapist, author of The Bonobo Way: The Evolution of Peace through Pleasure and horny housewife, occasionally seen on HBO and other channels. For speaking engagements, call 310-568-0066.

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  1. I hope one day i will be with this all sexxy laydy and transe;-)

  2. Dr. Tim says:

    What a wonderful time. Wish I had been there.

  3. Rose says:

    It was so beautiful to watch Simon flog Audrey. The energy completely shifted and the room fell silent – it really felt like an ancient and sacred ritual was taking place. Everyone was breathless! And there was such compassion there.

    It was also great to hear Simon speak about his experience as a human being- a lovely person to behold.

    Great show…

  4. Kink Month is proving to be a fulfilling delight! Simon Blaise offers a special brand of domination, with a sensual feel and a solid presentation. The incredible energy that occurred while he was flogging the beautiful Audrey Holiday was intense and electric. Simon does most things with finesse and flourish, and his appearance on our show is no exception.

    Exploring the diverse views and approaches on kink and fetish, we realize that everyone has the potential to be a Kinkstar. Much of Simon’s approach is about knowing who you are, what you like, and following your heart without shame or over-categorizing. This makes way for more enjoyment and opportunity exploring your desires!

    It was my personal delight to see Simon appear on this show in both identities, and to see how fluidly he transitioned from yin to yang. As a dominant to Audrey in leather boots and a heavy flogger, he generated a quickly intensifying scene for her, climaxing with an orgasmic release. Within minutes after this very ‘boy-girl’ scene, I was aroused and delighted to see how he transformed before our eyes, into his feminine persona.

    I think it’s apparent how much I enjoyed exploring the feminine side ;) To be so in tune with oneself is inspiring and so very sexy. Simon’s existence is an inspiration to others to accept themselves as they are, appreciate our own sensuality, and celebrate exchanging energy between souls, regardless of gender.

  5. Sonny Cool says:

    Susu you don’t miss a beat baby like your style

  6. That Audrey Holiday is truly a legit sub … maybe I should say she must be very well trained. :)

    Love the Simon Blaise action and the message behind their story of doctor’s trying to obliterate one gender over the other and they were overturned to authenticity’s favor!

    At the helm, Captain Max and loving keeping up with Hollywood Jake, Producer Biz Bonobo aka Elizabeth Aston, therapist extraordinaire Dayton Rains …

    “KINKSTAR” is a definitely catchy brand that as Dayton says in response to the teeshirt sported by the fascinating and seductive, versatile Blaise, many of us relate to!

    “Kink being your authentic self” …

    GREAT photos~ I’m definitely smitten with both Blaise and the lovely Holiday … but all the photos are eye-popping tonight…

    No “vanilla-itis” tonight. :)

    It’s about time for the article on why straight men have sex w/ other men … glad to see this as we know at the Block Institute as therapists (phone and webcam btw 310-568-0066) this is SO much more common than anyone much talks about so nice shoutout to Carrie Weisman who quotes you extensively…

    The girl who loved Master Orpheus’ choking is sooooo my sistah! Audrey Holiday is great.

    Biz Bonobo never ceases to impress– is FULL of sophisticated surprises & LOVE the finger action what a DOLL!!!

    Okay enough out of me; XO… I might add the audio is luscious so the gentle reader need only press play and enjoy!


  7. Ono Bo says:

    What an exciting time on DrSuzy.TV!

    Audrey Holiday recieved a lovely flogging on the St. John’s cross by Simon Blaise before Simon went to exist as Frankie Capwell. Frankie shifted into herself quickly, as her dominant masculine being shifted into her glowing feminine side.

    As Frankie came out, she took to allowing the other women to enjoy and explore her. Dayton Rains took to Frankie’s lovely feet while Biz became engulfed in the moment with Frankie’s arousal.

    Thanks to DrSuzy.Tv for highlighting some sexy gender-variant action!

  8. Dr. Susan Block represents what we call today in Buddhism “A voice that does the buddha’s work!” in romance. She not only has the ability to make us seek deeper meaning to love ourselves first but love others. Her program and her work is profound and priceless. Chelsea and her posse are amazing and are true treasures of life, they make romance, sex, and more so much fun! I am honored to say, that they are truly voices to do the work of the buddha for which I can say two words: “thank you” and thank you to you all for supporting my campaign 2 end bullying and bullycide.

    ONWARD UPWARD AND FORWARD towards justice and change!

  9. Peter says:

    Great show Dr. Block. I’ve been watching for several months now and I’m always amazed. Certainly one can not see this on regular television.I’m also very impressed by your political stance on the world. Now that your forces are fighting Russian forces Mr. Bush (the idiot who went and poked the beehive) can be proud of the disaster he has dumped upon the world. This is the reason that Saadam and Col. Kadaffi where strongmen (dictators) who kept the violent religious loonies under wraps in prison. Both of them advised the idiot Bush that to remove them from power would mean tragedy for their people and for the world. Now there is no turning back and we are fighting proxy wars around the world. Thanks for a great show.

  10. Charlotte says:

    Wow, great show Dr. Suzy. Would love to have been there.

  11. Frankie says:

    That was a blast! Thank you for having me

  12. Del Rey says:

    Saturday night came and went, but the sounds of pleasure are still ringing in my ears. The kinky Kinkstars that took to the Speakeasy stage were a delight, on many levels, and to say that they were a joy to have in Bonoboville would be an understatement. Between the sensual flogging and the intellectual conversation, not to mention exploration of Simon’s body, there was much excitement, joy, and pleasure to be had. All in all this show is one that is not soon to be forgotten.

    Special bonoboville hat tip to Carrie Weisman for her Alternet article on “Bro-Jobs”
    Happy Kink month one and all, let the good times continue.

    See y’all next week.

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